Oh, the things you’ll find at the Curbside Boutique

Flag found

Last May, I found a new American flag, still folded in its box, in a pile of trash on the curb. The instructions for flag etiquette in the box say, “The flag should never touch anything beneath it, such as the ground, the floor, or water.” Does that include trash?

I rescued it, of course. We’ve debated for years whether desecrating the flag should be a crime or is protected speech. But I doubt many would argue that it wasn’t disrespectful and wrong to put the flag on the trash pile.

While we demand respect for the flag, we should remember to respect the earth, too.

The streets are flowing with furniture, appliances, clothing, toys. Flowing with some things, yes, that need to go to the landfills and recycling centers. But flowing, also, with things unique and useful, or perhaps needing repair. And, sadly, flowing with things of so little substance or strength, with such a trivial, fleeting purpose, with so little true beauty or integrity or usefulness that they should never have been produced in the first place. Yet they were, conspicuously consuming the earth’s resources. Then, after so brief a life, heading for decades in the landfill, with no hope of ever decomposing into life-giving compost or even so humble but honorable an end as food for microorganisms.

I’m one of those people who cruise the neighborhoods on curbside cleanup days, aka “Curbside Boutique.” I’ve been doing it long enough, along with shopping at rummage sales, that I rarely visit stores, yet have plenty of everything I need.

Brand-new clothes, cookware, books and other goods, unused, with the tags still on them. When there are children shivering, people homeless or just struggling to make ends meet in a weak economy, is it OK to put these in the trash? What about the many quality coats I’ve found that could keep people warm, which are bound, instead, for the burgeoning landfills? What of the many gifts, given in love or hope or obligation, that may not have been exactly right (or of which the recipient already had three) that end up hidden in the black plastic bags on the curb? Hidden, that is, unless someone opens the bag to discover it, wondering why it was not given to Goodwill, or Bridging, or the Vets, or the Lupus Foundation, or the local church rummage sale. Wondering why it was not given the chance to be a gift again — to someone for whom it may have been perfect.

Flag found

The good news is that I’m not alone. When I asked a number of people if they minded having their picture taken rescuing goods from a mountain of trash, to use when I give talks about my lifestyle, they all smiled and posed happily. We agreed it was those who threw out perfectly good items, instead of giving them away, who should be embarrassed — not us.

Our thrill at finding treasures in the trash is fraught with the sinking feeling that there is something terribly wrong here. That the scales of consumption are perilously tipped. While significant parts of the planet are struggling for even basic needs — food, water, shelter, clothing, education — the biggest concern of many Americans is what to do with all their stuff. When their desperate attempts to organize it fail, they “just get it out of here,” with little regard for where it came from or where it’s going.

Decades ago, an old friend said to me, “If everyone lived like you do, our economy would collapse.”

I answered that if we didn’t begin to understand the far-reaching effects of greed and irresponsible over-consumption, our ecology would collapse. Then so would the economy.

Now, here we are, perilously poised as both our economy and ecology are in danger of collapse, and finally coming to realize that they are inextricably connected. And I am hopeful. Because our new president understands that stimulation must include innovation. That the laws of nature strive for equilibrium. That an out-of-balance world is a dangerous place.

I doubt that the person who put this flag on the trash pile was intending to make a political statement. But it spoke to me, loud and clear. Daily I heard people thanking our military men and women for sacrificing so that we can live the way we do. And I questioned, is this lifestyle worth their sacrifice?

But as I heard President Obama say, “We will not apologize for our way of life…” I knew he spoke of the true values of America, not the unsustainable habits we have fallen into.

When I found the flag, I tucked it away in my closet. When I took it out on Inauguration Day, the very fabric and feel and color seemed to have changed. It was beautiful, and it was mine. Mine. Now it is hanging outside my door.

Holly Jorgensen is a librarian, speaker, and writer near Minneapolis, MN. She is coming to Fort Lauderdale February 7-15th to work on her book. If you would like her to share her power-point workshop “Saving Money, the Planet, and Your Sanity” with your group, school, or church, please contact her as soon as possible. You’ll enjoy the many pictures of her woodsy northern home and creative recycling projects.

Contact Holly at hollyjorgensen@hotmail.com

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